A good cell phone for kids is one with strong, built-in parental controls like Apple’s Screen Time or Google’s Family Link.
The real question isn’t which brand is coolest. It’s which phone lets you actually manage what your child sees, buys, and shares. For most US parents, that means a modern iPhone or Android device—not the cheapest model—because the supervision tools are baked in and actively updated. A phone without this support, especially an older Android below version 7.0, can leave you locked out of the very controls you need.
Here’s the honest breakdown of what makes a phone “good” for a kid, with the current official controls on both major platforms.
What Parents Actually Need From a Kids’ Phone
Forget the processor and camera specs. For a child’s first phone, the decision comes down to four things you can control remotely: app and website limits, screen time schedules, purchase approvals, and location or communication oversight.
Apple and Google both build these into their operating systems, which is why a standard iPhone or Android beats a “kids-only” device that may lack long-term support. Apple recommends setting up parental controls through Family Sharing plus Content & Privacy Restrictions after adding your child’s Apple Account to the family group. Google’s Family Link exists for the same reason on Android phones running version 7.0 (Nougat) or higher.
Setting Up Controls on an iPhone
Apple’s system is called Screen Time, and it works best when the child’s device is part of your Family Sharing group. Here’s the official path:
- Open Settings > Screen Time and tap your child’s name under Family.
- Turn on Content & Privacy Restrictions. Apple’s support pages state this is where you manage purchases, allowed apps and features, web content, and age-based limits.
- Set a 4-digit Screen Time passcode via Settings > Screen Time > Lock Screen Time Settings. Use the child’s name under Family here as well.
Once active, Screen Time gives you downtime schedules, app time limits, contact restrictions, and content ratings. Apple’s docs also note you can pick web content options: Unrestricted, Limit Adult Websites, or Only Approved Websites. Ask to Buy routes purchases and free downloads through your approval, and Communication Safety can be toggled on or off for the child’s device.
One catch: Apple says the child must be on an eligible device, and the software should be current. An outdated iPhone may not offer the full feature set. If you’re comparing specific models, our tested roundup of the best phones for kids this year covers which ones support these controls cleanly.
Setting Up Controls on an Android Phone
Google’s answer is Family Link, a supervision service for children and teens. The compatibility requirement is the big one to check before you buy: Family Link works on Android devices running version 7.0 (Nougat) and higher. Most modern phones qualify, but older budget models may not, and that’s the mistake parents make most often.
To set it up, install the Family Link app on your own phone, create the child’s Google Account, and follow the prompts to link their device to yours. The process walks you through app approvals, screen time limits, and content filters. Google presents Family Link as a way to stay informed as your child explores online, which means you’re seeing activity reports, not just setting a curfew.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
- Buying blind. Confirm the Android runs 7.0+ for Family Link, or verify the iPhone model is eligible for Screen Time before purchase.
- Skipping Family Sharing. On Apple, restrictions won’t apply properly until the child’s account is added to your family group.
- No passcode. Without a Screen Time passcode, a determined kid can change restrictions themselves.
- Assuming defaults are enough. Ask to Buy and Content & Privacy Restrictions are separate settings; both need to be turned on.
- Ignoring updates. Apple says devices should run the latest software for parental-control features to work fully.
| Control Feature | Apple (Screen Time) | Google (Family Link) |
|---|---|---|
| Minimum Requirement | Eligible iPhone/iPad; software updated | Android 7.0 (Nougat) or higher |
| App & Purchase Limits | Ask to Buy; Content & Privacy Restrictions | App approvals and purchase requests |
| Web Content Filtering | Unrestricted, Limit Adult, or Approved Only | Family Link content filters |
| Time Management | Downtime and per-app time limits | Screen time schedules |
| Communication Safety | Built into Screen Time | Via supervision settings |
The bottom line: a good phone for your child is a current, mainstream model with family controls switched on from day one. Confirm compatibility, set the passcode, and update the software before handing it over. Apple’s Screen Time guidance is detailed in their support pages, and Google’s Family Link compatibility is tied directly to the Android version. For a side-by-side look at devices that handle this well, the current list of recommended kids’ phones breaks down the best options by age and budget.
References & Sources
- Apple Support. “Set up parental controls on iPhone.” Official Family Sharing and Screen Time setup steps.
- Apple Support. “Use Screen Time on your child’s iPhone.” Covers Content & Privacy Restrictions and the Screen Time passcode.
- Apple Support. “Parental controls on iPhone.” Details on eligible devices and software update requirements.
